Your Archetype: People First
Your Sub-type: The Candle
A bright light that might burn everything down if left unattended. You’re the center of a lot of Venn Diagrams, bringing people together. People feel warmer and safe around you and in the memory of you, but there is a hidden danger.
About the Candle
The Candle is part of the People First Archetype:
- You don’t have to identify as an extrovert to be a Candle. You could have small circles of deep relationships for which you are the warmth and light.
- You will probably have A LOT more people at your funeral than you thought.
- Your bright warmth guides people. But are you leaving them in the dark after you’re gone?
Recommendations
You CARE about the people in your life, that makes you the perfect person to plan ahead for their well-being.
Are there debts, promises, or contracts you have that may create problems for your loved ones?
They don’t have to know the details now if you want, but they can’t be kept in the dark forever, especially after you’re gone. Make a list!
Your perfect setting is a group program. A sociable environment with community members working through the process together.
Recommendations
“I like people, but my friends – not strangers.”
Bright Candle, you’re so right!
You don’t have to become best friends with the community. Your nature will shine brightly as we work together.
If you feel like you’re too busy actually BEING with people to sit down and plan, try the linked suggestions below first.
Want to discuss your results?
You’ve taken a great step in learning you’re a Candle! I love helping Candles; as we can make the biggest difference in the place you hold value – your community.
Leaving a legacy of love takes work.
Not sure when Candles should start death-prep?
No worries. Book a quick call and I’ll create the best plan of action for all your Candle needs.
